Culture
존댓말 is a map of the room
Grammar books call it 'polite'. Koreans call it knowing where you stand.
-요 is the public floor. -습니다 is the presentation floor. 반말 is the kitchen.
Verbs change more than pronouns. 먹어요 / 먹습니다 / 먹어. Same rice, three rooms.
Staff 존댓말 to you does not mean you 반말 back. They are working. You are a customer, not family.
Say these
먹어요
meogeoyo
eat (polite)
먹습니다
meokseumnida
eat (formal)
먹어
meogeo
eat (intimate)
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Default with a stranger: