PROVERB · PEOPLE
가는 말이 고와야 오는 말이 곱다
What it means · 뜻
Speak kindly and kindness comes back.
Literal reading · 직역
If outgoing words are pretty, incoming words are beautiful
Context
🤝 People — Korean proverbs in this family are said out loud, not just read. They arrive with the situation attached, which is why they are worth learning as whole sentences rather than as vocabulary.
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Done with one thing, already eyeing the next.
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죽을 수가 닥치면 살 수가 생긴다
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Spoiling has gross invoices.
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